DO YOU WANT TO HAVE A BETTER SELF CONTROL AND WILLPOWER?? TRY THIS!!

Silence and smile are two powerful tools.

Smile is the way to solve many problems and

Silence is the way to avoid many problems!!

 

Your silence for one hour a day can bring magical results!!

Yes, silence can build up an enormous willpower-one that has been used by the Buddhist monks and many cultures over the years to build up a rock like willpower and enormous amount of inner strength and determination.you can enhance your will power and self control by observing silence even for a short period because you exert force on your will by not giving in to the impulse to talk.

I see many people talking far more than they need to.we often continue to talk on and on rather than speaking precisely and communicating only what needs to be communicated.It only reflects a lack of discipline in our life.Discipline involves saying exactly what needs to be said and preserving your precious mental energy by not talking more than you have to.Measured,precise speech is also a sign of clear thought and of a serene mind.

A better strategy to improve your personal discipline could be to take a firm decision to be silent for one hour a day over the next seven days.you must not speak at all during this silent time.DON’T WASTE YOUR WORDS ON PEOPLE WHO DESERVE YOUR SILENCE.However,if you must,speak only in a direct response to a question and give a brief,clear and crisp answer without getting into a detailed conversation.you can observe silence politely and warmly.The purpose of this exercise is to make you stronger and  build up your WILL.

Believe me,in a few days,you will feel and experience a tremendous sense of CONTROL and POWER growing within you.The results will speak for themselves.

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A SMALL SERVICE TO MY BELOVED READERS:

As i am also a life coach, if you so desire, you can refer to me  your personal, professional and family issues either through my blog or my email (given below) and I would send you my advice within a week.I am extending my services  to you for a very nominal  fee of 1 $ per advice which I only want to charge because when you get something free, you do not value it.My main objective

is to give you the benefit of my knowledge and three decades experience  so that you begin to think and understand life issues in an appropriate and rational manner and right perspective and lead a calm,anxiety free and happy life.

My email: ravi_singh52@hotmail.com

Thanks and Regards.

 

YOUR LIBERTY ENDS WHEN YOU START INTERFERING WITH OTHER’S LIBERTY

As a matter of fact, Liberty is a very misunderstood word. People think, it is their Liberty to do what they like in their house,it is their liberty to eat what they like, It is their liberty to sleep when they want to sleep,it is their liberty to dress up the way it pleases them, it is their liberty to listen the music they like, it is their liberty to party in their house till wee hours. THE LIST IS ENDLESS OF SUCH LIBERTY CLAIMS. Well,I have nothing against people’s liberty as mentioned above.It is perfectly okay – Nothing wrong.

BUT, BUT LIBERTY COMES WITH A RESPONSIBILITY AND TO EXPLAIN IT, I WILL TELL YOU A STORY.

Mr Swaminathan and Mr Bhandari were staying in Mumbai in the same apartment and they were neighbors. Mr Bhandari often use to return home late evening and was fond of listening to loud music at a very high pitch. This was his daily routine. Mr Swaminathan used to badly get upset with this loud music because he could not sleep.But he kept his patience and tolerated this loud music for two  weeks in the hope that better sense will prevail with his neighbor and things will improve.But that did not happen.

Mr Swaminathan decided to take up this matter with his neighbor and one night,while the loud music was going on,he knocked at the door of Mr Bhandari,who opened the door.Mr Swaminathan requested Mr Bhandari to keep the volume of the music low,because he could not sleep with such a loud music. Mr Bhandari said,Mr Swaminathan,I am in my own house and I have the full liberty to enjoy the music the way I like and this should not bother you.To this,Mr swaminathen told-Mr Bhandari! If it is your liberty to listen to such a loud music in your house,it is my liberty to sleep peacefully in my house!!

SO,YOUR LIBERTY ENDS WHEN YOU START INTERFERING WITH MY LIBERTY.

Mr Bhandari realized his mistake and apologized to Mr Swaminathan. He also promised Mr Swaminathan that, henceforth,he would exercise his liberty with due responsibility and not cause disturbance in his sleep.

MESSAGE-YOUR LIBERTY COMES WITH A RESPONSIBILITY.ALWAYS REMEMBER THIS!!

 

HOW TO COMBINE CREATIVITY AND RESULTS!!

As a rule, critical thinking is the norm in academia, and asking questions is necessary. Questioning ideas is the first step, and second is questioning the question itself.

As a result, academia has a reputation for being too open- ended and sluggish. In industry, we prefer to set a deadline, get things done and most importantly focus on execution. We worry that thinking about an idea could hold up progress.

Combine the two approaches to be sure you are both thinking creatively and getting results as well. Ask lots of questions but don’t let the questions impede  movement.

The questions should drive you toward a clear, defensible outcome!!

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SHOULD WE JUDGE A PERSON ON THE BASIS OF LOOK ALONE?

In my view before we try to answer this question,you should first ask yourself ‘why do I ask such question?’ What is the real purpose? I mean,do you want answer to this question because you are looking for a date with someone for a serious relationship leading to marriage OR you are looking for someone for a casual relationship OR you want someone to be with you to move around in a circle of friends who are good looking OR You are looking for a like minded person to regularly spend quality time with him or her.

As a general rule,judging someone on the basis of look alone can prevent you from seeing the good that lies beyond appearance.But the choice of your answer would entirely depend upon what is your real purpose.For instance,,how does it matter when you judge some one on the basis of look alone,if you want to have a casual relationship with him or her?

But yes,if you are looking for a date with someone for a serious relationship leading to marriage,you may have to  take a different view altogether,.because it’s a different ballgame.But let me tell you one thing. Honestly,you cannot ignore or undermine the importance of good look.Physical attraction is a very natural God gift to humanity and its normal to get attracted to a good looking man or woman.After all,when you meet someone for the first time ,you can only see his/her look-not other good or bad qualities.

But since we are now only confined to answer your question for a serious relationship,I am not averse to look for a good looking guy or girl because that is the first step in exploring other good or bad  habits in each other which will take time.

It may so happen,after being with each other for a sufficient time,if you ultimately find that he or she is a right marriage material,as per your choice of qualities,you can seal this relationship into a permanent relationship and if you find that he or she is not a marriage material,you should not try to take this this relationship to the next level on the basis of good look alone which had brought you both together.YOU BOTH SHOULD HAVE A HONEST AND FRANK DISCUSSION WITH EACH OTHER AND DEPART GRACEFULLY WITH EACH OTHER,

MESSAGE

I very strongly feel that no serious relationship can survive or sustain purely on the basis of good look.It has to have other desired qualities like DEPENDABILITY, TRUSTWORTHINESS AND RIGHT THINKING. If a person lacks in these qualities, in my view,any serious relationship can not flourish and be permanent.

A WORD OF CAUTION:PL DO NOT MAKE ANY COMMITMENT FOR MARRIAGE PURELY ON THE BASIS OF GOOD LOOK AND UNLESS YOU HAVE EXPLORED THE OTHER DESIRED QUALITIES AND ARE SURE ABOUT IT.

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A SMALL SERVICE TO MY BELOVED READERS:

As i am also a life coach, if you so desire, you can refer to me  your personal, professional and family issues either through my blog or my email (given below) and I would send you my advice within a week.I am extending my services  to you for a very nominal  fee of 1 $ per advice which I only want to charge because when you get something free, you do not value it.My main objective

is to give you the benefit of my knowledge and three decades experience  so that you begin to think and understand life issues in an appropriate and rational manner and right perspective and lead a calm,anxiety free and happy life.

My email: ravi_singh52@hotmail.com

Thanks and Regards

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MISTAKES ARE OFTEN THE BEST TEACHERS

There are very few people who feel comfortable making mistakes at work or in their life. They fear that they will lose the respect of their managers and peers, and that they will tarnish their reputations. Yet mistakes are often the best teachers.

People wont learn something new if they only do things they know well. Create a mistake-making culture. Encourage your people to take risks. Help them accept their gaffes and share what they have learned from them.

Ofcourse, there are times when blunders are too costly. But for those less mission-critical times, ask your people to approach problems not as experts but as learners.

ARE YOU WITH ME ?

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YOU CAN MAKE IT HAPPEN!!

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CONTENTS:-

1. How to walk through most difficult times in your life

2. Take action

3. You cant ignore this universal truth

4. Dont be like chained elephants

5. Learn to say no

6. Life mei kuch bhi ho sakta hai

7. Star perfotmer also may have to put up papers (always have a backup plan)

8. My struggles after corporate job.

9. Learn to say i am sorry

10. What makes you a result-oriented person? (10 steps)

11. Marketing eye- best marketing practices (jo dikhta hai wo bikta hai)

12. Secret of maintaining a heathy relationship.

13. Make it a habit to save

14. Why should you focus on first things first.

15. Hard work or smart work.

16. Its human relationships that matter

17. Focus to win but dont hate to lose.

18. Nothing escapes a marketing eye.

19. Finding your strengths and reading results.

20. A good boss does not need tone a star.

21. How to focus on your career

22. Leadership and developing a vision.

23. What it takes to make things happen

24. Ye takdir bhi badi kutti cheez hai

25. Battle of life

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