SHOULD WE REVISIT OUR PAST?

To me, it could be yes! And no also!! 

We normally counsel people to avoid living in the past. “Live in the now”, they advise. “Enjoy the moment”. “The past is a grave”. Well, i can understand what they are saying. But is not there something good about going back in the past and deighting in the delicious moments of the journey so far? And in learning from all we have experienced?

Whether you should revisit the past, to my mind, depends on your intention. If your intention in and reason for going back into your past is to dwell on bad experiences and to worry over things you cannot change and to rehash painful times, then i suggest it is an unhealthy act. Its a complete waste of time and just keeps you stuck. But, if your intention is to reflect on the lessons that events have taught and to grow in wisdom and to savor the precious memories that you were blessed enough to experience, well, then i think that’s a good thing. Because you are letting your past serve you. And make you better!!

I guess what i am inviting you to consider is that its a waste of time to fret over and regret things that cannot be changed. Right. Are you with me!!

But it is an intelligent use of time to bask in good times, feel gratitude for them and use even the challenging times of your personal history to leverage your future success. 

Am i wrong ? Decide!! 

 

ARE WE KNOWN BY THE LANGUAGE WE USE!

Yes! Definitely.

Language offers a framework for meaning. Think about that powerful idea for a second. We understand the world through words. The words you use determine the way you perceive reality.

If you call a stumbling block a “problem” or “a big mess”, you will create a different emotional state within you than if you call the issue “an opportunity” or “a challenge that will only make me better”.

One of extraordinarily successful people’s common traits of greatness is that the vast majority of them understand the power of the word. THEY USE WORLD-CLASS LANGUAGE.

They do not only refrain from using profanity, but they use the language of passion. They use the language of leadership. They use the language of possibility. They use the language of love.

Love you!!

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YOU OWE THIS LEGACY TO YOUR KIDS!!

I was once travelling by road and saw a billboard that immediately caught my eye.

WHAT ARE YOU TEACHING YOUR CHILDREN?

I stopped for a while and read this line again and again.

The big idea? This one line sentence had a very deep meaning and urgent message to all of us. Leadership really does begin at home.

What are we teaching our children by the lives we are leading and the examples we are setting?

I strongly believe that the best way to influence your kids is to be true to yourself and to lead the best and exemplary life that you can, so that they will adopt the same values, though their path may be different.

What message are you sending to those little leaders who watch your every move closely and model your every act? 

Are you showing them what is possible by being remarkable in each of your persuits? Or are you teaching them to play small by resigning yourself to average?

It just needs one parents give the coveted values and upbringing to their kids and trust me it will percolate and flow down generation after generation in times yet to come. This could possibly be your greatest gifts to your kids and their kids and incoming generation. Will you not be proud enough in your old age to see the fruits of the seeds planted by you.

The fruit never falls far from the tree. And your children will become a lot more like you than you may believe. So decide today what kind of values and lifestyle you want to gift out to your kids. And you can help your kids to get to their greatness.

IT STARTS WITH YOU, IT GROWS WITH YOU AND IT ENDS WITH YOU!! 

NOT ANY MORE!! 

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Believe it or not! His Master plan for you is unquestionable!!

Highs and lows are the integral part of His Master Plan designed for you with your best interests in mind.

Yes! This is true! I have experienced it! Your expectations for yourself, and your life becomes self-fulfilling prophecies. What you intend shapes what you become. So, make a commitment, today, to be remarkable.

Live full out. Vow to be brilliant at your work. Devote to getting into world-class health. Respect your relationship. Take positive risks to grow into your greatness. Love like there is no tomorrow. And enjoy every moment.

Life is an incredible adventure. Tons of highs and lots of lows. But all of it, is precious. Gorgeous!!

And designed with your best interests in mind. So, embrace it all!!

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DO YOU APPROVE AND ACCEPT NEW MODEL OF LIVING ?

Do you really think that being kind, learning to listen, building out your vision and things like working on your character are soft. Nope. They are hard. And that’s why so few of us do them.

Anyone can act tough.

What takes genuine power is to be open. To care about others. To learn from those around you. To be human. It is same for things like listening and vision and character building. Getting good at those things takes a ton of courage.

Why?

Because we need to develop humility and be willing to admit we are far from perfect. And that we need to change. And change is scary. Because it causes us to leave the comfort zone we have always known. And sail out into the blue oceans.

So the soft stuff is really the hard stuff. And the new model of living really is about mastering the skills people in the past judged as soft. And those people that cling to the old ways of being will get left behind.

Message

ALL CHANGE IS HARD AT FIRST, MESSY IN THE MIDDLE AND GORGEOUS AT THE END.

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WHAT IS THE THE SIZE OF YOUR SHOES ?

Is it big enough?

This reminds me Harley Davidson ad which i read a few days ago. The main line:

Leave behind shoes,

     No man can Fill”

I love it!

How big a life are you living? Not necessarily a big wordly life! How bold a dream are you dreaming?

How remarkable a person are you becoming?

And to top it, how large a footprint will you leave behind, such that generations who will follow you will know that you have been here? 

And made your mark as a true remarkable person!! A superb human being!!

Message

Live your life as an example of possibility!!!

RESPECT HIS UNPLEASANT DECISION!! YOU CANNOT UNDERSTAND IT-NOW!!

It is my experience that conscience is God’s voice in our hearts. Live within it and you will lose in Him. Live without it and you will lose Him.

We often become sad and frustrated when things do not happen our way. We become so sad that we start losing faith in Him. We always fail to see the bigger picture.

As i do, if this ever happens to you, please remind yourself:

If God answers your prayers, He is increasing your faith. If He delays, he is increasing your patience. If He does not answer, He has something better for you.

From my experience, many questions that i do write to Him always find their own answers. Somehow, somewhere, almost inevitably, the answers come.

You may not understand His decisions immediately but if you carefully listen to your conscience voice, you too would find your answers somewhere, somehow!!

UNTIL THEN, BE CALM! BE COOL! BE PATIENT! AND SEE THE MIRACLE YOURSELF!!

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