Believe it or not! His Master plan for you is unquestionable!!

Highs and lows are the integral part of His Master Plan designed for you with your best interests in mind.

Yes! This is true! I have experienced it! Your expectations for yourself, and your life becomes self-fulfilling prophecies. What you intend shapes what you become. So, make a commitment, today, to be remarkable.

Live full out. Vow to be brilliant at your work. Devote to getting into world-class health. Respect your relationship. Take positive risks to grow into your greatness. Love like there is no tomorrow. And enjoy every moment.

Life is an incredible adventure. Tons of highs and lots of lows. But all of it, is precious. Gorgeous!!

And designed with your best interests in mind. So, embrace it all!!

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DO YOU APPROVE AND ACCEPT NEW MODEL OF LIVING ?

Do you really think that being kind, learning to listen, building out your vision and things like working on your character are soft. Nope. They are hard. And that’s why so few of us do them.

Anyone can act tough.

What takes genuine power is to be open. To care about others. To learn from those around you. To be human. It is same for things like listening and vision and character building. Getting good at those things takes a ton of courage.

Why?

Because we need to develop humility and be willing to admit we are far from perfect. And that we need to change. And change is scary. Because it causes us to leave the comfort zone we have always known. And sail out into the blue oceans.

So the soft stuff is really the hard stuff. And the new model of living really is about mastering the skills people in the past judged as soft. And those people that cling to the old ways of being will get left behind.

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ALL CHANGE IS HARD AT FIRST, MESSY IN THE MIDDLE AND GORGEOUS AT THE END.

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RESPECT HIS UNPLEASANT DECISION!! YOU CANNOT UNDERSTAND IT-NOW!!

It is my experience that conscience is God’s voice in our hearts. Live within it and you will lose in Him. Live without it and you will lose Him.

We often become sad and frustrated when things do not happen our way. We become so sad that we start losing faith in Him. We always fail to see the bigger picture.

As i do, if this ever happens to you, please remind yourself:

If God answers your prayers, He is increasing your faith. If He delays, he is increasing your patience. If He does not answer, He has something better for you.

From my experience, many questions that i do write to Him always find their own answers. Somehow, somewhere, almost inevitably, the answers come.

You may not understand His decisions immediately but if you carefully listen to your conscience voice, you too would find your answers somewhere, somehow!!

UNTIL THEN, BE CALM! BE COOL! BE PATIENT! AND SEE THE MIRACLE YOURSELF!!

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IF YOUR LIFE HAS TO MEAN SOMETHING, IT MUST CHANGE TODAY!!

Every one of us is bound to be a world-class champion in a particular field of endeavour. We are duty bound to find that result.

But, remember, doing the same things everyday cannot deliver new results. To change the results you are getting, you need to change what you are doing. You must transform the way you live your life.

Changing the way you live means changing how you think. Changing how you think means changing what you have come to believe or accept about life. This is very hard. So hard that even when you so desperately want to change, you prefer to hang on yo the misery because it is familiar and comfortable.

THIS IS THE PARALYSING DEATH OF THE COMFORT ZONE!!

There are basically two kinds of people: lions and sheep. Ninety percent of us are sheep. Because we like to follow the norm. The norm being our comfort zone.

The comfort zone is where you get to drown slowly and luxuriate in it as you do.

Change requires risk. But how much are we willing to risk? The funny thing is, the things we are so scared of risking are like chops in a casino, useless unless they are risked.

Your life is not yours until you risk it. What you have is only a good opportunity to experience life.

Every time you walk away from something that challenges your comfort zone and everytime you choose not to risk, YOU ARE MISSING THAT OPPORTUNITY.

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DID YOU EVER HAVE THIS KIND OF EMBARRASSMENT IN A RESTAURANT?

Possibly No, but I don’t want to presume!

Can you believe that eating 10 Pastries in a restaurant could bring so much embarrassment to me? But you have got to trust me as this is a real life incidence!!

When I was very young, I was once going to to Pachmari, a hill station in Madhya Pradesh,India, to attend an Advanced Leadership Camp  with Rock Climbing Course. The duration of this camp was three  weeks.  After finishing the course,on my way back home,I decided to break my journey at Allhabad,UP,India and stay for a day with my brother,who was then studying Law at Allahabad University.

I reached my brother’s hostel in the morning and in the evening,he decided to take me for an outing along with his good friend.After roaming for about an hour, they took me to a very popular restaurant in Allhabad. They ordered for Coffee and  Pastry which was served to us after a while.

I was surprised to see that 12 Pastries of different varities were served to us in a plate. Strange-12 pastries for just three persons! While my brother and his friend were sipping coffee, they just took 1 piece of pastry each. I  picked up two pastry and finished it in no time. While I had finished 4 pastry, my brother and his friend had just one each and they did not seem to be  interested in eating anymore pastry. The ratio of pastry consumption between my brother/his friend and me seemed to me unbalanced and I was keen that they atleast pick up one more each so that I find it easy to lay my hands on balance pastry without any hesitation. But they seemed to be firm on not eating anymore.

Meanwhile,my brother’s friend called the waiter and asked him to bring the bill. What struck to me was that this restaurant would anyway charge us for the full plate containing 12 pastries.If we don’t eat the remaining 6 pastries, we wil have to pay for 12 pastries and waiter will take away unfinshed 6 pastries. So before the waiter could bring the bill, which took about 5 minutes,I grabbed one pastry each in my both hand  and finshed it all  remaining 6 pastries before the waiter could show his face. After the payment, we all came out of the restaurant and decided to return to hostel.

When we reached my brother’s hostel room around 9 pm, the food was being served in the hostel’s mess. My brother asked me to accompany him to mess for dinner, but since I had consumed 10 pastries I was feeling uneasy and refused to have my dinner. My brother looked at me with a long face and told me, ‘ don’t you have eating manners? Why did you eat 10 pastries in one go like an ANIMAL?’ I said to my brother, ‘I did not want  while we pay for 12 pastries, waiter takes away unconsumed 6 pastries.My brother told me you are all wrong-the restaurant’s serves assorted pastries of all varities in a plate and they charge only for the pastries consumed and take away unconsumed pastries withoud charging for them.  Meanwhile, my brother’s friend dropped in the room and was enquiring with my brother,if I was feeling ok now(since I had complained of stomach uneasiness).

I got so embarrassed at my ignorance, greed and this incidence,that I failed to keep my eye contact with my friend and his friend.

HA HA HA HA………….What a memorable but embarrassing day!!

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LOVE TO WIN BUT DON’T HATE TO LOSE !

“AFTER ALL, WHEN WE LOSE, IT MAKES US STRONG ENOUGH TO FACE  ANOTHER CHALLENGE YET TO COME.”

 

  • KNOW WHICH BATTLE YOU HAVE TO WIN:

NOBODY wins all the time-every point in a tennis match or every hole in a golf tournament.No business person pulls off a coup on every deal and even the star performer salesman come up empty hand many times.One of the skills that distinguishes a winner is an instinct for knowing when he can afford to lose and when he must win.

THAT ALLOWS HIM TO FOCUS ON HIS EFFORTS:

Choose your must wins with care.Concentrate on the essentials and plot your course carefully.

NEVER BE DISTRACTED BY FRIENDS,ENEMIES OR YOUR EMOTIONS.

  • LOVE TO WIN-BUT DON’T HATE TO LOSE:

The difference is subtle but loving to win and hating to lose are not the same thing.One is driven by joy.The other is inspired by fear.In thoroughbred,racing champion’s are born to run.There is a sheer animal vigor in finishing first.Nothing interferes with that single goal.The  same priority of intention and clarity of purpose is found in humans,skilled in the art of winning.Hating to lose muddles the water.Fear breed  misjudgement.Instead of concentrating 100% on your goal,you waste efforts worrying about what other man is doing.

HATING TO LOSE CAN LEAD TO BIG MISTAKE OF WINNING A 100 MILLION BID BUT LOSING A 200 MILLION IN THE PROCESS.

DO YOU GET ME AND MY MESSAGE?

  • BE RELENTLESS-NOT MALICIOUS:

IN pre-fight interviews,boxers make it a point of how much they hate each other.Whether this hype or whether the men really do need to work up a personal dislike to be able to go out and pummel each other-I don’t presume to say.Even in most head-to-head sports,you are not battling an option.you are matching something  you do against something he does.Consider tennis.you hit a shot,your opponent hits a shot-now what is it you are actually hitting?The ball-not the other player.

  • DEPERSONALIZE THE CONTEST:

Bjorn Borg, wimbeldon champion,was a master at this.His icy court demeanor was his own brand of relentlessness.He was there to do one thing and ONE THING ONLY-to hit the ball perfectly.Everything that appeared on his side of the net.What happened on the other side and who it happened to was simply not his concern!!

We stress this because,in situations where the contest is more abstract,there is tendency to over personalize the competition.If you are General Motors,you don’t combat imports by taking a crowbar to a Honda-you do it by outperforming the other side.

PERSONALIZE  THE CONTEST AND EGO START TO CONFLICT WITH SOUND PROFESSIONAL JUDGEMENT.