“WE ALWAYS HAVE A CHOICE AND CAN ALWAYS CHOOSE BETWEEN RIGHT AND WRONG!!”

Don’t  you think stainless steel is a brilliant invention. But what about a stainless character? One that is noble, aspires for mastery in all pursuits and never gives up in moving closer to its ideals.

What is within must always appear without. What i meant by that is that the quality of your inner world eventually is reflected in the quality of your outer world.

Your external life can never grow bigger than your internal one. Life really is a mirror- reflecting who we are, rather than all we want.

A person who dreams pristine dreams and who is impeccably honest, good, ethical, and stands for what is best will soon act in alignment with those values. And those actions are bound to drive extraordinary results. Inner always creates outer. Always!!

The best things in life do take effort and commitment and discipline is always less than the pain of regret. 

And sure, it all seems so obvious. But what is most obvious is most often forgotten.

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THINGS CAN NEVER BRING YOU JOY THAT LASTS!!

You spend your life or energy or talents chasing things: the more you get, the more you want. They never fulfill their promise of happiness. Its a pretty cruel ruse once you really think about it.

You get the car you have been dreaming of for years and after a few days, you are already thinking about the next one. You move into your dream home or get your dream job and within a couple of weeks, the attraction has faded and the sparkle has gone. Its no longer exciting. Your attention moves on to the next desire.

What i have experienced in my life is that things can never bring you joy that lasts!! 

I want to be incredibly clear: there is absolutely nothing wrong, in my mind, with having, collecting or wanting nice things. They make the climb to the mountaintop more pleasant.

I guess what i am trying to say is that perhaps the key for us is not to worship them. Not to get hooked by them. Not to be enslaved by all the things material.

Enjoy them. Just dont get caught in the trap they often set.

So yes, own things. Its a human hunger. Get the shiny objects of allure that call out for your attention. And once you own them, enjoy them. 

But dont let them own you. Possess them. Bt dont be possessed by them. 

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WHAT DO YOU THINK IS YOUR HIGHEST FREEDOM??

In my view-to choose our attitude! What about you?

One of my favourite book is ‘Man’s search for Meaning’, written by Victor Frank, an Austrian psychotherapist who survived confinement  in Nazi concentration camp. So many of these around him perished. They lost hope. They fell into despair, then death.

He managed to get through the ordeal by applying what I believe is our highest human freedom: Our ability to choose how we respond to and process any event that happens to us.

We can look for some good or we can become haunted by the bad.CHOICE IS OURS!

In my view, everything can be taken from a man except one thing,the last of human freedom to choose one’s attitude to a given set of circumstances, to choose one’s way.

Such a Superb and Brilliant ‘OPTION’ to all of us!!

Love it!

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DO YOUR BEST- LET LIFE DO THE REST!!

My core values and life experience have taught me that success is the result of a very delicate balance between making things happen and letting things happen. Yes, i agree we have the responsibility to set our goals and realise our potential and play at our very best.

We need to do our part. Good things definitely unfold for people who are devoted to doing great things. But may i suggest we also need to show a gentle commitment to letting things unfold. In other words, do your best- then let life do the rest!! It may take time! Be patient!

I have the conviction that life will always lead you to a place that’s better, even when it may not seem like it. I have learnt it is important to let life lead you. Not an easy lesson to absorb- I know; still working on that one myself.

If you have tried everything possible to realise an outcome and it just has not worked out as planned- STOP TRYING SO HARD!! Relax! May be nothing is wrong. May be timing is not right. May be what you wanted was not in you best interests. May be while one door seems to be closing, another is actually opening.

And often, once you let go of what you thought was best, believe me, space is created for something even better for you to arrive.

BECAUSE EVERY ENDING USHERS IN A BRAND-NEW BEGINNING!!

JUST ONE DECISION, ONE CHOICE & ONE COMMITMENT AND THERE YOU ARE!!

Yes! One decision, one choice and one commitment can transform our professional as well as our personal lives forever. 

This day can be the first day of your new life. The day that changes everything, the day you stopped playing small and stood up for the poetic possibilities your life was meant to have. I get excited just thinking about that. Seriously.

So my question to you is a simple one: what one leap could you make today, if you made it, would change the game? What one bold step could you take that would radically alter the way you think, feel and behave?

What new Move could you step into that would lift you into the realm of extraordinary, remarkable, world-class? 

Now, today, why not take that step?

Why wait, Do it Now!!

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Believe it or not! His Master plan for you is unquestionable!!

Highs and lows are the integral part of His Master Plan designed for you with your best interests in mind.

Yes! This is true! I have experienced it! Your expectations for yourself, and your life becomes self-fulfilling prophecies. What you intend shapes what you become. So, make a commitment, today, to be remarkable.

Live full out. Vow to be brilliant at your work. Devote to getting into world-class health. Respect your relationship. Take positive risks to grow into your greatness. Love like there is no tomorrow. And enjoy every moment.

Life is an incredible adventure. Tons of highs and lots of lows. But all of it, is precious. Gorgeous!!

And designed with your best interests in mind. So, embrace it all!!

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DO YOU APPROVE AND ACCEPT NEW MODEL OF LIVING ?

Do you really think that being kind, learning to listen, building out your vision and things like working on your character are soft. Nope. They are hard. And that’s why so few of us do them.

Anyone can act tough.

What takes genuine power is to be open. To care about others. To learn from those around you. To be human. It is same for things like listening and vision and character building. Getting good at those things takes a ton of courage.

Why?

Because we need to develop humility and be willing to admit we are far from perfect. And that we need to change. And change is scary. Because it causes us to leave the comfort zone we have always known. And sail out into the blue oceans.

So the soft stuff is really the hard stuff. And the new model of living really is about mastering the skills people in the past judged as soft. And those people that cling to the old ways of being will get left behind.

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ALL CHANGE IS HARD AT FIRST, MESSY IN THE MIDDLE AND GORGEOUS AT THE END.

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THIS IS TO INFORM ALL MY BELOVED READERS THAT I HAVE WRITTEN THREE BOOKS DURING THE LAST TWO YEARS. IN CASE YOU DECIDE TO READ THESE BOOKS YOU CAN GO TO MY HOMEPAGE AND HAVE A LOOK AT THE BOOKS. ALSO, YOU CAN SEND ME YOUR ORDER THROUGH E-MAIL, AND I WILL SEND YOU THESE BOOKS IN PDF FORMS.

YOU CAN CHOOSE THESE BOOKS FOR 1$ EACH.

***YOU MUST READ THESE BOOKS BECAUSE THEY HAVE THE POWER TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE FOREVER***