Your Destiny Rules your WORLD !!

WHETHER YOU BELIEVE IN DESTINY OR NOT-

YOU DECIDE !!

 

When it comes to Destiny or Taqdir-there are two types of people.One-who strongly believe in Destiny and Two-Who don’t believe in destiny,because they think they can create their own destiny the way they want.With due respect to second category,i would like to say that i come from the first category.I can say with conviction that while EFFORTS AND HARD WORK are the first and foremost important steps to achieve your dream in life but eventually-DESTINY RULES YOUR WORLD and has final say in the matter!!

I would cite a few true example and leave it to you READER to decide whether destiny had any roles in shaping these matters.

I started my career in 1979 as a Technical Representative with a multinational company and worked in the same position till 1991,without any promotion in a span of 13 long years.Believe me,I was rated a star performer by the company consistently for all these years-but no promotion.Despite my stagnation for 13 years,better sense prevailed in me and i did not allow my performance ratings to come down.

AS destiny had decided something better for me,i left this company and joined a reputed company in 1991 as Deputy Marketing Manager,became Area Sales Manager in 1993,Sales Manager in 1994,Regional Manager in 1995,Assistant General Manager in 1996,Deputy General Manager in 1997-that is SIX Promotion in six years.Destiny still had something better for me ,I left this company in 1999 to join the largest Corporate House in India and became its GM in 2001.

Trust me friends,I had not given any extraordinary performance from 1992 to 2001(9 years),but it rewarded me 7 promotions in 9 years.

HOW DO YOU EXPLAIN IT?

My star performance in the first 13 years of my career din not give me a single promotion,while the same level of performance in subsequent 9 years gave me 7 promotions.

This is how destiny rules your life and you get everything in life as per ‘MASTER PLAN’.

I will cite another example.We were trying our daughter to get married since 2008.Despite many good proposals pouring-in and our extensive efforts-it was not taking final shape.But probably destiny had already decided the best for her and it came all of sudden in mid 2012.we got the best match for her and she got married in jan 2013 and is now happily married with a son.This all happened as per the MASTER PLAN.

The list is endless,but i will give you another and last example.

While i was graduating from St.Xavier college,i had set my heart to to become the Fighter Pilot in the Indian Air FORCE.Despite initial failure,I eventually for selected in the Indian Air Force on 18th Dec !972 to be trained as Fighter Pilot.While i was eagerly awaiting to join training from 1st July 1973,I was intimated by the Air Head Quarter,New Delhi,that due to some strategic reasons,vacancies were curtailed and i wont be able to join the training program at Hyderabad.

WHAT WILL YOU CALL THIS? IS IT NOT THE GAME OF DESTINY? THE MASTER PLAN HAD DECIDED SOMETHING ELSE FOR ME!!!

MESSAGE TO YOU

  • Take life as it comes to you.You can only make efforts but can never go against your MASTER PLAN.
  • Have Patience. Learn to Wait.
  • If you struggle and move forward-your destiny will recreate for you and eventually REWARD  YOU. It may take time but good things will surely happen to you.
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What it takes to succeed in life?

WHAT IT TAKES TO SUCCEED IN LIFE?

My reply will always be when it is a question of your life and death!! Before i elaborate on my reply, i would like to remind you that famous proverb of Beau Taplin:

“On the difficult days,when the worlds on you shoulder,

remember that diamonds are made under the weight of mountains”.

I have walked through, like other people, the most difficult times in my life by always reminding me this proverb and so can you-during the most difficult times in your life. The day you have a heart attack, i bet, you quit smoking next day, if not same day. WHY? SIMPLE! It is now a question of your life and death-do you agree or not?

Let me share with you a very interesting story. A disciple once asked his GURU(Mahatma) that what was the secret of success.Mahatma asked his disciple that if he was really serious to know the secret of success,he should come to the nearby river tomorrow  sharp 4 in the morning. His disciple gladly agreed and was at the river side next day 4am.

He found that his Guru was already inside the river,performing prayer.Guruji called his disciple inside the river water,hold his disciple’s hair in his hand and put his head under the water.When disciple was short of breadth,he wanted to get his head out of the water.But Guruji did not allow him to do so.A point came,when disciple was totally out of breadth and felt death like situation.But Guruji had held his head so tight under the water,that he couldnot do anything.When disciple was virtually losing his breadth to a death like situation,he suddenly pushed back Guruji with all his force and managed to emerge out of the water.The disciple angrily asked guruji-why did he do this cruelity to him.Guruji told him-“THIS IS THE SECRET OF SUCCESS”.You succeed in life,when it is a question of your life and death.The disciple touched the feet of his guru to pay his gratitude to him for this eye-opening lesson.

Likewise,when you are down in dumps,remember to keep kicking,keep fighting.It is important to ensure that in such cases,you do not get shocked into inaction like a deer caught in a car’s headlight.YOU MUST KEEP TRYING.What you do in these difficult times will determine-what happens to you next.Yes,it may also happen that simply fighting hard in a difficult situation may not guarantee you a success.But remember,not trying and simply giving up will only guarantee FAILURE.

This could not only be key to your survival,it could potentially be a Life Changer.If you find you are suddenly fired from the job,don’t fret. It just may be the perfect opportunity to hone a new skill or develop a latent talent.That could totally change your life for better.People have switched careers and turned to Blogging,writing,teaching,farming etc and discovered far more joy in their new-found vocations than their earlier jobs,what fat pay cheques and fancy designations could never have given them.People have started business  in their most difficult hour,that brought them unimagined fame and wealth.

IT IS YOUR TURN NOW TO TAKE THE PLUNGE!!

MY MESSAGE TO YOU

That moment of strife,that hour of darkness,those Crisis-ridden days could be the opportunity to craft a new beginning.A NEW VICTORY!!!

GOOD LUCK.

 

Don’t be like Chained Elephants !! – unbelievable traits of chained elephants.

“None but ourselves can free our minds” – Bob Marley


Yes, I totally believe in the above proverb-Do you?

Once I was passing the elephants in my village. I suddenly stopped confused by the fact that these huge creatures were being held  by only a small rope tied to their front leg.

No Chains! No cages!

It was obvious and you would agree with me that the elephants,at any time,could break away from these small rope’s bonds,but for some reason,they did not do so. Meanwhile,I saw a trainer or mahawat (as they are known in villages) nearby and asked him-why these splendid animals just stood there and made no attempt to get away?

“Well” he said,”when they are very young and much smaller,we use the same size of rope to tie them and,at that age,it is enough to hold them.As they grow up,they are conditioned to believe that they cannot break away.They believe,the rope can still hold them.So they never try to break free.”

This was really amazing and unbelievable,but,the reality was in front of me.These animals,who have the strength to lift gigantic weight,could easily and at any time break free from their bonds.

BUT BECAUSE THEY BELIEVED THEY COULD NOT, THEY WERE STUCK-SIGHT WHERE THEY WERE.

Like the elephants,many of us too go through our life hanging onto a belief that we cannot  or can never do something simply because,we believe we cannot do it or because we have failed at it once before.

          …MY MESSAGE TO YOU ALL

COMMON!! CHANGE YOUR MINDSET;CHANGE YOUR BELIEF SYSTEM.

BREAK FREE!

YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE BUT YOUR CHAINS

                                      &

YOU WILL HAVE FREEDOM TO GAIN.

GOOD LUCK FRIENDS!!!