DO YOU WANT TO BE HAPPY, WEALTHY AND HEALTHY? IF YES- FOLLOW THESE 10 THINGS !!

 

Who does not want to be happy, wealthy and healthy? Obviously, everybody want to be happy, wealthy and healthy. But there is no free lunch and you have to invest time and effort to achieve it. In my view, if you have or work on these qualities, you can lead a happy, wealthy and healthy life.

  1. CONTROL YOUR ANGER:

This is the most sought after quality. You must exercise restrain and control your anger, else it may permanently damage your personal and professional life.

  1. HAVE PATIENCE:

Life has its own rules and cycle. Sometime, things happen the way you want and sometime as yet, things may not happen the way you want them to happen. It often takes time for a few or everything to happen. Have patience in such adverse situations.

  1. HAVE BACKUP PLAN:

Never take your job, business or any other source of income for granted. Things can change against you in a moment. Don’t wait for that moment to come in your life. Always have your backup plan ready to meet such contingency.

  1. LEARN TO BE CALM AND COMPOSED:

As is the universe law, you will have to undergo and face various crises at various stages of your life. Trust me, no crisis can affect your life adversely if you learn to remain calm under such situation. Believe me, storm passes away without disturbing you, since they cannot fight your calmness. To remain calm and composed in all situations, I highly recommend you to do yoga and meditation.

  1. BE TRUSTWORTHY:

This is one quality that is a MUST in anybody. You can never have a good personal and professional relationship with anybody if people cannot trust you. In fact, you cannot have any relationships at all.

  1. HAVE YOUR INTEGRITY INTACT:

Never compromise on your integrity. This is just non-negotiable.

  1. LEARN TO GIVE AND SHARE:

History always repeats itself. what you give and share with others in your life- it is returned to you at an appropriate time and God decides that timing. So, learn to have a ‘go-giving’ attitude and let it be your second nature.

    8: RESPECT MONEY:

Getting money to work for you is no different from getting people to work for you. If you don’t treat your money with respect, it will leave you. It has happened with me. so, in times of abundance, be always cautious and respectful. It may just help stretch the abundance a bit.

    9: DEPENDENCY IS A BIG NO!!

There is no harm in this. Everybody takes help from others. But there is a thin line between taking help and being dependent. Never cross this line. If you want to live a happy life, please be self-dependent in all respect.

  1. BLESSINGS OF PARENTS:

Last but not the least, believe me, it matters a lot. You need to have blessings of your parents to lead a happy, wealthy and healthy life. Trust me, I have survived the greatest crisis of my life with my parents blessings.

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A SMALL SERVICE TO MY BELOVED READERS:

As i am also a life coach, if you so desire, you can refer to me  your personal, professional and family issues either through my blog or my email (given below) and I would send you my advice within a week.I am extending my services  to you for a very nominal  fee of 1 $ per advice which I only want to charge because when you get something free, you do not value it.My main objective is to give you the benefit of my knowledge and three decades experience  so that you begin to think and understand life issues in an appropriate and rational manner and right perspective and lead a calm,anxiety free and happy life.

My email: ravi_singh52@hotmail.com

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HUG IS MAGICAL AND CHARISMATIC-TRY IT!!

Trust me- a minimum of six to eight hugs a day can make you feel better and behave better- Try this and see it for yourself!!

Touch can make you cry. A touch can give you HOPE! How do you comfort yourself when you are sad and in pain? For most of us, it is a hug. Touch is a primal instinct. Being hugged releases the “feel good”, harmons called oxytocin which induces feeling of trust and love. Hugging someone is a way of improving not just how you feel, but also how you behave. Hugging someone for just 30 seconds is even cool.

It has been established through research that people who inhale oxytocin would be more empathetic, trusting and wonderful in the virtuous sense of the word.

REMEMBER!! A TOUCH CAN MAKE YOU CRY. A TOUCH CAN GIVE YOU COVETED HOPE.

A TOUCH CAN HEAL!!

 

Enough said!!

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LEARN TO GIVE. LEARN TO SHARE!!

One of my favorite stories from the life of Mahatma Gandhi is set on a train.It concerns a rail journey that young Gandhi was to undertake in India.It so happened that as Gandhiji climbed on the train,one of his shoes slipped off.As he bend to try and grab it,it fell down to the rail track,while the train gathered momentum.In a fraction of second,Gandhi ji reached for his second shoe and threw it towards the fast disappearing other shoe on the track.

A perplexed onlooker anxiously asked Gandhi ji why did he throw his second shoe. Gandhiji explained: ‘Oh well,if someone is to find one of my shoes,hopefully he will find the other shoe too, and thus have a fine new pair for himself’.

WHAT A MAN! What a wonderful instinctive quick response! Frankly speaking, if you or I were in the Mahatma’s shoe, how would we have literally reacted? Probably ,felt miserable for the  rest of the journey, at the loss of a new shoe. We would have worried about how we would manage  once we  have reached our destination. That one lost shoe would have played on our mind all the way.

Unfortunately, we tend to focus on what we have lost. That other shoe! And we carry that burden of loss, adding to our woes. When instead we could so easily focus on what we have-and see if that  could be of use to someone. Giving away that second shoe did not just make some poor Indian happy(remember,a shoe was quite a luxury for most of our countrymen in those pre-independence days), it made Gandhi happier too.

Perhaps it is time we all shifted focus. Instead of pushing to become go-getter-wanting more, more,-we ought to learn to become go-giver.Learning to give.Learning to share. Instead of spending our waking lives worrying about the shoe that is lost,perhaps we should thank  God for the shoe we still have, and discover how giving it away could make us,and someone else, happier.

This ‘go-giving’ attitude has to become second nature. Instinctive almost. It would not have helped Gandhi ji to have realized half an hour into the train ride that the lone shoe was of no use. It worked because he thought of it right there,right then!

We, too often,find ourselves discussing in the comfort of our homes how we should have-could have-helped someone.Done our bit. When the moment passes,the opportunity sadly disappears too.So,we must become a go-giver.Not a go-getter.Help someone. Share what you have. And discover the joy of not having to worry about the shoe that is lost.

                                                                   MESSAGE

                                 LEARN TO GIVE. LEARN TO SHARE WHAT YOU HAVE!!

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A SMALL SERVICE TO MY BELOVED READERS:

As i am also a life coach, if you so desire, you can refer to me  your personal, professional and family issues either through my blog or my email (given below) and I would send you my advice within a week.I am extending my services  to you for a very nominal  fee of 1 $ per advice which I only want to charge because when you get something free, you do not value it.My main objective

is to give you the benefit of my knowledge and three decades experience  so that you begin to think and understand life issues in an appropriate and rational manner and right perspective and lead a calm,anxiety free and happy life.

My email: ravi_singh52@hotmail.com

Thanks and Regards.

IT IS REALITY THAT LONG TERM SUSTAINABLE SUCCESS TAKES TIME.

Those of you who know about Chinese Bamboo and those of you who don’t know about it may think-what is there for me to tell you all about a Bamboo.Bamboo is after all a Bamboo only.

NO friends! If you think that way,there are surprises for you for sure. There is a very special and interesting story about Chinese Bamboo and life changing lessons to be learnt from this unique bamboo.

Chinese bamboo is a tree that grows really tall-to  a height of over 80 feet.Wow! so high! It takes around 5 years and 3 months to grow to its full height.But there is something more interesting thing about it.You see nothing for the first 5 years after you plant the seed.Except perhaps a little shoot springing out of the bulb and struggling to make a squiggle.

And then,in the next 90 days,it shoots up to a towering 80 feet.Can you believe it?  For the first sixty months all the growth is invisible below the surface. And in next three months-yes,merely  ninety days-it literally takes off and become as tall as the eight story building.

We all need to pause and take action from the chinese bamboo.Nothing of substance happens in haste.Having sown the seed and having initiated something,when we don’t see the results,we get impatient.But patience has its rewards.

As leaders and bosses,we become impatient for results.you should ask yourself whether your leadership style encourages or even allows-the growth of the chinese bamboo.Or are you creating an organization of stunted,but quickly visible trees,so  the next time you feel frustrated by lack of results and want to give up,don’t.Think of the chinese bamboo.

When you feel the world is unjust and is refusing to recognize your hard work and commitment,don’t get disheartened.Five years of subterranean activity will almost always be followed by three months of meteoric rise.And yes,when you finally achieve success,be prepared for people to say: ‘oh,he is so lucky.He has become an overnight success!’

Alas! If only they knew about the CHINESE BAMBOO!

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Patience is eventually rewarded.Nothing of substance happens in haste.

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A SMALL SERVICE TO MY BELOVED READERS:

As i am also a life coach, if you so desire, you can refer to me  your personal, professional and family issues either through my blog or my email (given below) and I would send you my advice within a week.I am extending my services  to you for a very nominal  fee of 1 $ per advice which I only want to charge because when you get something free, you do not value it.My main objective

is to give you the benefit of my knowledge and three decades experience  so that you begin to think and understand life issues in an appropriate and rational manner and right perspective and lead a calm,anxiety free and happy life.

My email: ravi_singh52@hotmail.com

Thanks and Regards.

APPEARANCES OF BALLOONS DON’T MATTER-WHAT IS WITHIN MAKES THE DIFFERENCE!!

In today’s world,appearances seem to matter more to us than our core expertise and strengths.This reminds me of a story of a balloon-seller at a village fair which I want to share with you all.Well,this balloon-seller was selling helium-filled balloons in various colours-red,blue,white,green,yellow…

The string of a red balloon snapped by accident and, as the balloon soared into the sky,the crowd roared and kids tugged at their parent’s arms,urging them to get them balloons.Seeing that it was attracting attention,the balloon-seller released another balloon.This time a blue one,that quickly soared towards the clouds.Soon after,he  released a green balloon.Then a yellow one.

Seeing all the balloons going up,a little boy went upto the balloon-seller and innocently asked: ‘If you release that white balloon,will it also soar as high as the rest?’ The balloon-seller explained: ‘Son,it is not the colour of the balloon that matters.It is what’s inside that makes it rise high!’

As it is true of balloons,it is true of people too.Appearances don’t matter.It is what is within that makes the difference.That is a lesson we would all do well to remember.When we look at other people.And when we look at ourselves.we must look deeper.we must look within.

We tend to judge people by their external manifestations,the way they speak,the way they dress.Sure,first impressions are important but its even more important to ensure that we don’t get carried away.

Some of the smarter,brightest colleagues I have worked with have been shy and quiet and apparently easy to miss.No big talk,no fanfare.Just good minds,the willingness to work hard and can-do attitude.The shirt is not always tucked in properly,the blue socks don’t quite go well with the beige trousers,the heavy accent often jars.But hidden beneath all of that is a REAL TREASURE-a teammate you could be proud of!

When I see young,ambitious people,I sometime worry that they are quick to copy the mannerism and styles and looks of their successful role models-but don’t spend as much time on developing the core: the real value that make for real success.They confuse the visible trappings of  success with the real internal strengths that actually contribute to the success.

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IT IS NOT THE COLOUR OF THE BALLOON THAT MATTERS.IT IS WHAT IS INSIDE IT THAT MAKES IT RISE AND SOAR IN THE SKY.

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A SMALL SERVICE TO MY BELOVED READERS:

As i am also a life coach, if you so desire, you can refer to me  your personal, professional and family issues either through my blog or my email (given below) and I would send you my advice within a week.I am extending my services  to you for a very nominal  fee of 1 $ per advice which I only want to charge because when you get something free, you do not value it.My main objective

is to give you the benefit of my knowledge and three decades experience  so that you begin to think and understand life issues in an appropriate and rational manner and right perspective and lead a calm,anxiety free and happy life.

My email: ravi_singh52@hotmail.com

Thanks and Regards.

IF YOU DO GOOD THING TO SOMEBODY,YOU CANNOT BIND HIM TO DO THE SAME THING TO YOU!!

After all,just because you do good deed to a scorpion,it does not mean that it will stop him from stinging you,because to sting is his nature.

You must have heard people saying-‘I never thought he would do this to me,not after all that I did for him!’ you may have said this to you too.The sense of betrayal,of being let down,is disgusting.And yet,it seems to recur with unfailing regularity-and it happens in offices,in relationship,in lives.The sense of hurt seems to get compounded by the belief that we did so much for that person.The notion is that since we have done so much for that person-we have possibly bought out his right to do something that would hurt us.

But it may not necessarily happen that way,and it mostly do not happen that way.This is the Reality and the sooner we accept it the better for us.

Have you heard the story of the Scorpion and the frog? Once a scorpion wanted to cross the stream,but since he could not swim,he went over to the frog and requested him to allow him to ride on his back.I cannot swim!!The frog said,I cannot possibly let you do that.You are a scorpion.you will sting me.The scorpion said to frog-I could not possibly do that,because if I did we would both  drown! So you can trust me on this.

Sensing the logic and seeing an opportunity to speak of one’s achievement for having helped a scorpion across,the frog agreed. Well,when they were  in the middle of the stream,the scorpion stung the frog.The frog shockingly asked-why did you do that? He quickly started going down in the water. ‘Because I am a scorpion’ came the reply,as both the frog and scorpion drowned.

What is important here to remember: Just because you do a good deed to a scorpion,it does not necessarily mean that it will stop him from stinging you.

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Scorpion will be Scorpion.They sting and will sting.Expecting otherwise will only set you up for a big disappointment-time and again!!

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A SMALL SERVICE TO MY BELOVED READERS:

As i am also a life coach, if you so desire, you can refer to me  your personal, professional and family issues either through my blog or my email (given below) and I would send you my advice within a week.I am extending my services  to you for a very nominal  fee of 1 $ per advice which I only want to charge because when you get something free, you do not value it.My main objective

is to give you the benefit of my knowledge and three decades experience  so that you begin to think and understand life issues in an appropriate and rational manner and right perspective and lead a calm,anxiety free and happy life.

My email: ravi_singh52@hotmail.com

Thanks and Regards.