KEEP SHIFTING YOUR PERSPECTIVE DURING DIFFICULT TIMES!! IT  WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE FOR EVER!!

I would start with an old story of a man with a serious illness,who was wheeled into a hospital room where another patient was resting on a bed next to the window.As the two became friends,the one next to the window would look out of it and then start delighting his bedridden companion with beautiful description of the world outside window.He would speak about the beautiful trees in the park across from the  hospital and the leaves danced in the wind.He would on other day entertain his friend with replays of the things people were doing as they walked by the hospital.However,with each passing day,the bedridden man got frustrated over his inability to observe the wonderful things his friend described.Eventually,he started to dislike him and then hate him intensly.

It so happened one night that during a bad coughing fit,the patient next to window stopped breathing.The other man,rather than pressing the emergency button for help,chose to do nothing about it.The next morning the patient who had given his friend so much happiness by describing the wonderful sights outside the window was declared dead and wheeled out of the hospital room.The other man quickly asked that his bed be placed next to the window and his request was complied with by the attending nurse.But as he looked out of the window,he discovered something that made him shocked: the window faced a stark brick wall.His former roommate had described a beautiful world outside the window as a loving gesture to make his friend happier during a difficult time.He had acted out of selfless love for his companion.

This story always inspire me to create a shift in my own perspective when I think about it.During your most difficult time,when you are down with negative thoughts,to live happier and more fulfilling lives,we must keep shifting our perspective and continuously ask ourselves,”IS THERE A WISER,MORE ENLIGHTENED WAY OF LOOKING AT THIS SEEMINGLY NEGATIVE SITUATION?”

PL DO THIS AND TRUST ME,THE PLEASURE WILL BE ENTIRELY MINE.

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A SMALL SERVICE TO MY BELOVED READERS:

As i am also a life coach, if you so desire, you can refer to me  your personal, professional and family issues either through my blog or my email (given below) and I would send you my advice within a week.I am extending my services  to you for a very nominal  fee of 1 $ per advice which I only want to charge because when you get something free, you do not value it.My main objective is to give you the benefit of my knowledge and three decades experience  so that you begin to think and understand life issues in an appropriate and rational manner and right perspective and lead a calm,anxiety free and happy life.

My email: ravi_singh52@hotmail.com

Thanks and Regards.

RESPECT YOUR PAST-IT HAS A REASON & MESSAGE FOR YOU

Science has revealed a timeless reality that holds that you become what you consistently think about over a period of time.And thinking about all these things that you wish never happened to you is actually blocking all the things you want to happen from entering your life.Does it really make sense to worry about past events or mistakes. Of course not,unless you want to experience them for a second time.Yes,think about it!!

Please take it from me that, if you have failed more than others,there is a very good chance you are living a more meaningful life than others.Those who take more chances and dare to do more than others will obviously experience more failures.But on a personal level,I would rather have courage to try something and then fail than never to have tried it  at all fearing failures.

I have experienced that in life’s greatest setbacks is hidden life’s biggest opportunities.”There is in the worst of fortunes the best chances for a happy change”.If you have suffered a lot and faced tremendous difficulties in life,it could be a clear indication,perhaps,god is preparing you to serve some greater purpose that needs you to be equipped with the  wisdom you have acquired through your trials.Please use these life lessons to fuel your future growth,Always remember,happy people have often experienced as much adversity as those who are unhappy.

I have learnt to honour my past,learn life lessons from them and would prefer spending rest of my life expanding my human side and trying to make the seemingly impossible probables than LIVE A LIFE OF COMFORT,SECURITY AND MEDIOCRITY.That is the essence of true life success.

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A SMALL SERVICE TO MY BELOVED READERS:

As i am also a life coach, if you so desire, you can refer to me  your personal, professional and family issues either through my blog or my email (given below) and I would send you my advice within a week.I am extending my services  to you for a very nominal  fee of 1 $ per advice which I only want to charge because when you get something free, you do not value it.My main objective

is to give you the benefit of my knowledge and three decades experience  so that you begin to think and understand life issues in an appropriate and rational manner and right perspective and lead a calm,anxiety free and happy life.

My email: ravi_singh52@hotmail.com

Thanks and Regards.

YOUR PAST MAY HAVE SPOTS, BUT YOUR FUTURE IS SPOTLESS!!

Time is precious and the most amazing things about it is the fact that you cannot waste it in advance.It does not matter how much time you have wasted in past,the next hours that comes your way will be perfect,spotless and ready for you to make its best use.It also does not matter what has happened to you in past,your future is spotless.Every dawn brings with it  a  new day and opportunity to begin a completely new life.If you so desire and choose,tomorrow can be the day for you to start getting up early,go for morning walk,reading books,controlling your temper and worries.You could start being more of the person you dream to be.YOU JUST NEED TO DO IT!! THAT’S IT!!

Who is stopping you to decide and write afresh the story of your life on a blank page.You can decide at this very moment the way you would like it to unfold and create  a new ending.My only question to you will be-ARE YOU READY TO DO SO ?? Think about it!!

REMEMBER,IT IS NEVER TOO LATE TO BECOME THE PERSON YOU DREAM AND HAVE ALWAYS WANTED TO BE.

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A SMALL SERVICE TO MY BELOVED READERS:

As i am also a life coach, if you so desire, you can refer to me your personal, professional and family issues either through my blog or my email (given below) and I would send you my advice within a week.I am extending my services  to you for a very nominal  fee of 1 $ per advice which I only want to charge because when you get something free, you do not value it. My main objective is to give you the benefit of my knowledge and three decades experience so that you begin to think and understand life issues in an appropriate and rational manner and right perspective and lead a calm, anxiety free and happy life.

My email: ravi_singh52@hotmail.com

Thanks and Regards.

INFORMATION TO MY READERS.

AS I am also a life coach, if you so like, you can refer to me you your personal, professional, family issues either through my blog or my email (given below) and I would send you my advice within a week.I would extend my service to you for a very nominal  fee of 1$ per advice which I only want to charge because when you get something free, you do not value it.

My email: ravi_singh52@hotmail.com

Thanks and regards.

DO YOU RECOGNIZE AND RESPECT YOUR INSTINCTS??

Your instincts are your personal source of wisdom and it is not easy to listen to this still,small voice within.It often becomes difficult to listen  to your instincts when the world around you pressures you to conform to its dictates.Nevertheless,you must listen to those hunches and feeling that comes to you when you most need them.They can also give you fulfillment and abundance you may seek.

In my view,as we grow older,we give far greater respect to our instincts and to the natural reservoir of intuition that stayes within each one of us.The impressions we receive when we first meet a new person or that inner  sense of wisdom that softly dictates us in the right direction during a difficult time have now come to  play larger part in the way we work and live.It looks like that with age comes the corresponding power and ability to trust our own instincts

IT has been found that our personal instincts grow stronger when we live “on purpose”, which  precisely means spending our days on activities that advance us along the path to our legacy.When you are doing the right things and living the way nature intended us to live,we liberate the fullness of the person we really are.

The Indian philosopher Patanjali has well said:

When you are inspired by some great purpose,some extraordinary projects,all your thoughts break their bonds:your mind transcends limitations,your consciousness expands in every direction,and you find yourself in a new,great and wonderful world.Dormant forces,faculties and talents become alive,and you discover yourself to be a greater person by far than you ever dreamed yourself to be.

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10 BEST AND BASIC MARKETING PRACTICES!!

1-The first step is to know how to sell yourself before you sell your product-demonstrate your charm,charisma and business etiquettes.

2-The second step is to know what to sell (Product knowledge).

3-The third step is to know where &to whom to sell the product(Markets and Customers)

4-The fourth step is to know the use  of the product in specific market and outlets(Application)

5-The fifth step is to know-how to organize and oversee a marketing territory(Territory Management)

6- The sixth step is to know execution of territory marketing plan on a daily,weekly and monthly basis.(Time Management)

7-The seventh step is to know-how to market the product in the most effective way(Marketing Technique)

8-The eighth step is to know-who should market the product(Marketing Team)

9-The ninth step is to know-why should the customers buy the product.(Benefits & value addition)

10-The tenth step is to know-what is the proof that your product is good(Quality proof from reputed labs)

These are the basic,systematic and foolproof marketing approach which you may have to stratagize and fine tune according to market and customers needs and effectively market your product to step-up your company’s bottom line eg PROFIT.

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YOU ARE BORN FOR A REASON-BIG OR SMALL!!

We start to live our lives from the day we start to take our very first  breath that god has given to us.Our purpose starts to take shape.With that first breath,we also step in the world which has endless failure for people who give up and astounding success for individuals who never give up trying.Money,fame ,success…all this has no meaning if the person has not worked harder and harder each day in order to achieve it.

We often hear…”HARDWORK IS THE KEY TO SUCCESS”;for achieving anything, hardwork is must.Work is a great rescue for all difficulties.Constant vigilance and dedication towards work is the price that we pay to gain success in life.Without hardwork, one cannot achieve,but can only dream and desire of achieving it.People go through certain phases in life….good and tough times.We are all humans,we all have that capability to make life as it existed in our dreams.When our time to experience that ‘dream’finally arrives,we forget almost everything and we ultimately get lost in that success,that success which we have been desperately wanting since forever.But somehow,when we actually start to live that dream,we forget about how to make it last forever.In that particular time we only think of our present and not future and hence we face hardship in our future.

The longest journey that we as human being will ever go through is the journey of life.Life has its ups and downs and at the most unexpected time,can go into a horrifying downfall,which has rough and bumpy corners.We eventually ask ourselves,”do we have any control on what our future holds or which turn we will take?

It is  true that life cannot be perfect all the time.Once in a life time,every person faces ups and downs in their lives.It is also  true that an individual with his strength to hold on and with the power of determination can conquer any battle,even if it is the “BATTLE OF LIFE”.Man is born to to work,prosper and grow in life.Just like steel,he shines in use and rusts in rest.

How does it matter if a man lives for ninety years and it is all a story of idleness and wasted opportunities? Lord Jesus Christ died when he was hardly thirty,Lenin died before he was sixty,and yet they have impressions on human history.Idleness  is truly a curse.If we waste time,time shall waste us.A life crammed with work is a life bubbling with a joy of success.Great men of the world were born as unfortunates in cottages but they died in idols,in palaces.

To sum up,greatness and success lie in hard,honest and selfless work.life can be hard to understand and I don’t think even the person most in touch with themselves knows why they were put on  this earth.I believe that we were put on this earth for a reason,big or small.Do we have a plan of our life set out for us already,that we have to follow,no matter how much we try to change it!!

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