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WISH ALL MY BELOVED READERS AND FRIENDS A VERY HAPPY HOLI!!

HAVE A FUN AND ENJOY TODAY!

LOVE TO ALL OF YOU!

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This is a reblogged post which is very informative.

DOES ANGER LEAVE A PERMANENT SCAR?

YES! IT DOES. USE YOUR TEMPER ONLY TO SEND ACROSS MESSAGE TO PEOPLE THAT YOU WILL NOT HESITATE TO EXERCISE THIS OPTION -IF NEED BE

This is an inspirational story which may inspire you to understand the consequence of bad temper and make conscious efforts to control your bad temper.

There was a little boy who had a bad temper.His dad gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper,he must hammer a nail into the fence.

The first day,the boy had driven 40 nails into the fence.As he learnt to control his anger,over the next few weeks,the number of nails hammered daily,gradually dwindled down.He discovered,it was easier to hold his anger than to drive those nails into the fence.Finally,the day came when the boy did not lose his temper at all.He told his dad about it and his dad suggested that the boy NOW pull one nail each day that he was able to hold his temper.

The day passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his dad that all the nails were now removed.The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence.

He said,”you have done extremely well, my son! But then took him at the holes in the fence.the fence will never be the same.WHEN YOU SAY THINGS IN ANGER,THEY LEAVE A PERMANENT SCAR JUST LIKE THIS ONE”

MORAL: You can put a knife in a man and draw it out.It does not matter how many times you say I am sorry,the wound is still there.Make sure you control your temper the next time you are tempted to say something you will regret later.

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TRUST ME-ITS POSSIBLE:USE YOUR TEMPER ONLY TO SEND ACROSS MESSAGE TO THE PEOPLE THAT YOU WILL NOT HESITATE TO EXERCISE THIS OPTION-IF NEED BE.

BE CONFIDENT BUT BE PREPARED TO CHANGE YOUR MIND!!

One of the keys to effective decision making is confidence.

Even if you have temporary convictions, act on them. If you doubt your decision while making it, trust in your leadership may erode and you should never allow that to happen.

Strong opinions signal confidence and provide others with the guidence they need. But resist the urge to cling to your decisions. Have the humility to realize that you might be wrong if better information comes along. And yes, be prepared to  change your mind and correct your course if that happens.

Enough said!!

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TAKE OWNERSHIP!

Autonomy, influence, and a sense of meaning are all associated with lower stress. If you need to find more joy, take on a new project that will improve your job, team, or workplace.  I have done it myself and experienced its result.

While you may not have the same degree of freedom that an entrepreneur does, you can surely find ways  to set the agenda and claim ownership of tasks and projects.

This ownership will likely improve job satisfaction( an issue these days) while adding an important accomplishment to your resume.

HOW IS THIS?

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