IF YOU DO GOOD THING TO SOMEBODY,YOU CANNOT BIND HIM TO DO THE SAME THING TO YOU!!

After all,just because you do good deed to a scorpion,it does not mean that it will stop him from stinging you,because to sting is his nature.

You must have heard people saying-‘I never thought he would do this to me,not after all that I did for him!’ you may have said this to you too.The sense of betrayal,of being let down,is disgusting.And yet,it seems to recur with unfailing regularity-and it happens in offices,in relationship,in lives.The sense of hurt seems to get compounded by the belief that we did so much for that person.The notion is that since we have done so much for that person-we have possibly bought out his right to do something that would hurt us.

But it may not necessarily happen that way,and it mostly do not happen that way.This is the Reality and the sooner we accept it the better for us.

Have you heard the story of the Scorpion and the frog? Once a scorpion wanted to cross the stream,but since he could not swim,he went over to the frog and requested him to allow him to ride on his back.I cannot swim!!The frog said,I cannot possibly let you do that.You are a scorpion.you will sting me.The scorpion said to frog-I could not possibly do that,because if I did we would both  drown! So you can trust me on this.

Sensing the logic and seeing an opportunity to speak of one’s achievement for having helped a scorpion across,the frog agreed. Well,when they were  in the middle of the stream,the scorpion stung the frog.The frog shockingly asked-why did you do that? He quickly started going down in the water. ‘Because I am a scorpion’ came the reply,as both the frog and scorpion drowned.

What is important here to remember: Just because you do a good deed to a scorpion,it does not necessarily mean that it will stop him from stinging you.

                                                                      MESSAGE

Scorpion will be Scorpion.They sting and will sting.Expecting otherwise will only set you up for a big disappointment-time and again!!

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A SMALL SERVICE TO MY BELOVED READERS:

As i am also a life coach, if you so desire, you can refer to me  your personal, professional and family issues either through my blog or my email (given below) and I would send you my advice within a week.I am extending my services  to you for a very nominal  fee of 1 $ per advice which I only want to charge because when you get something free, you do not value it.My main objective

is to give you the benefit of my knowledge and three decades experience  so that you begin to think and understand life issues in an appropriate and rational manner and right perspective and lead a calm,anxiety free and happy life.

My email: ravi_singh52@hotmail.com

Thanks and Regards.

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IF YOU DO GOOD THING TO SOMEBODY,YOU CANNOT BIND HIM TO DO THE SAME THING TO YOU!!

After all,just because you do good deed to a scorpion,it does not mean that it will stop him from stinging you,because to sting is his nature.

You must have heard people saying-‘I never thought he would do this to me,not after all that I did for him!’ you may have said this to you too.The sense of betrayal,of being let down,is disgusting.And yet,it seems to recur with unfailing regularity-and it happens in offices,in relationship,in lives.The sense of hurt seems to get compounded by the belief that we did so much for that person.The notion is that since we have done so much for that person-we have possibly bought out his right to do something that would hurt us.

But it may not necessarily happen that way,and it mostly do not happen that way.This is the Reality and the sooner we accept it the better for us.

Have you heard the story of the Scorpion and the frog? Once a scorpion wanted to cross the stream,but since he could not swim,he went over to the frog and requested him to allow him to ride on his back.I cannot swim!!The frog said,I cannot possibly let you do that.You are a scorpion.you will sting me.The scorpion said to frog-I could not possibly do that,because if I did we would both  drown! So you can trust me on this.

Sensing the logic and seeing an opportunity to speak of one’s achievement for having helped a scorpion across,the frog agreed. Well,when they were  in the middle of the stream,the scorpion stung the frog.The frog shockingly asked-why did you do that? He quickly started going down in the water. ‘Because I am a scorpion’ came the reply,as both the frog and scorpion drowned.

What is important here to remember: Just because you do a good deed to a scorpion,it does not necessarily mean that it will stop him from stinging you.

                                                                      MESSAGE

Scorpion will be Scorpion.They sting and will sting.Expecting otherwise will only set you up for a big disappointment-time and again!!

                                                            ______________________

A SMALL SERVICE TO MY BELOVED READERS:

As i am also a life coach, if you so desire, you can refer to me  your personal, professional and family issues either through my blog or my email (given below) and I would send you my advice within a week.I am extending my services  to you for a very nominal  fee of 1 $ per advice which I only want to charge because when you get something free, you do not value it.My main objective

is to give you the benefit of my knowledge and three decades experience  so that you begin to think and understand life issues in an appropriate and rational manner and right perspective and lead a calm,anxiety free and happy life.

My email: ravi_singh52@hotmail.com

Thanks and Regards.

SECURITY GUARD ENDANGERS WOMEN’S SECURITY AND MODESTY.

Perfume researcher Shalini patil (name changed) was raped and murdered in cold blood on 5th October 2016 by the former security guard Rakesh singh of a posh housing society in Goa where Shalini patil was residing in a rented flat. Reason: Anger and revenge.

The true story goes like this: Shalini patil was a high-profile perfume researcher and was staying in Goa at a posh housing society flat on rent. Shalini had hired the security guard, Rakesh Singh of the society to wash her car and his interactions with her were frequent. Singh was also fascinated with Shalini. It so happened that Shalini’s stolen umbrella was found in the possession of Rakesh Singh. Shalini reported this incident to the housing society and Shalini rebuked Rakesh in front of the society members. Rakesh was eventually terminated from his job. Singh’s employer refused to pay him his two months’ salary totaling to rs 20,000. Rakesh was very angry with this incident and held Shalini responsible for the loss of his job and two months’ salary.

Rakesh was so angry and frustrated that he decided to take revenge from Shalini. Posing as a security supervisor, Rakesh knocked at the door of Shalini’s flat and pulled his way in and held Shalini at knife point. As she was about to shout, he covered her mouth with his hands and took her inside the washroom. Shalini became nervous and went into semi-conscious state.

He then tied her hands and legs on the bed and demanded her debit card and mobile with their pin number and password. Shalini was helpless, she obliged the security guard. Rakesh then raped her. Sensing that he will eventually be caught, he smothered Shalini with a pillow and murdered her in cold blood.

Needless to say, that Rakesh Singh was ultimately caught by the police and what is more important to see is that, can arrest of Rakesh return the precious life of Shalini Patil? Definitely not!

Message: These types of incidents have become very common these days where one has to face the wrath of hot tempered people. Shalini had not done anything wrong by complaining against the security guard. Such people must be taken to task for their wrong doings. To avoid such incidence which may take your life, you need to be more careful and adopt safety measures. Please install safety devices in your flat (with camera facility) which can easily avert such incidents by not opening your door for such suspected and perverted people and taking the help of other security guards of the society through intercom facility available these days.

DO YOU WANT TO HAVE A BETTER SELF CONTROL AND WILLPOWER?? TRY THIS!!

Silence and smile are two powerful tools.

Smile is the way to solve many problems and

Silence is the way to avoid many problems!!

 

Your silence for one hour a day can bring magical results!!

Yes, silence can build up an enormous willpower-one that has been used by the Buddhist monks and many cultures over the years to build up a rock like willpower and enormous amount of inner strength and determination.you can enhance your will power and self control by observing silence even for a short period because you exert force on your will by not giving in to the impulse to talk.

I see many people talking far more than they need to.we often continue to talk on and on rather than speaking precisely and communicating only what needs to be communicated.It only reflects a lack of discipline in our life.Discipline involves saying exactly what needs to be said and preserving your precious mental energy by not talking more than you have to.Measured,precise speech is also a sign of clear thought and of a serene mind.

A better strategy to improve your personal discipline could be to take a firm decision to be silent for one hour a day over the next seven days.you must not speak at all during this silent time.DON’T WASTE YOUR WORDS ON PEOPLE WHO DESERVE YOUR SILENCE.However,if you must,speak only in a direct response to a question and give a brief,clear and crisp answer without getting into a detailed conversation.you can observe silence politely and warmly.The purpose of this exercise is to make you stronger and  build up your WILL.

Believe me,in a few days,you will feel and experience a tremendous sense of CONTROL and POWER growing within you.The results will speak for themselves.

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A SMALL SERVICE TO MY BELOVED READERS:

As i am also a life coach, if you so desire, you can refer to me  your personal, professional and family issues either through my blog or my email (given below) and I would send you my advice within a week.I am extending my services  to you for a very nominal  fee of 1 $ per advice which I only want to charge because when you get something free, you do not value it.My main objective

is to give you the benefit of my knowledge and three decades experience  so that you begin to think and understand life issues in an appropriate and rational manner and right perspective and lead a calm,anxiety free and happy life.

My email: ravi_singh52@hotmail.com

Thanks and Regards.

 

DO YOU LOVE & ENJOY YOUR WORK??

If you want to live a long,happy life,you must love your work.All successful and satisfied people have one thing in common:an intense passion for their work,and they all loved what they did for a living.If you spend your days doing work that you find rewarding,intellectually challenging and fun will give you far greater comfort and satisfaction than any other activity.Thomas Edison,who recorded more than one thousand patents in his life time,said about his brilliant career at the end of his life,”I never did a day’s work in my life:It was all fun”.

If you love your job,you may find that you may never have to work another day in your life.your work will be play and time will go away as quickly as they came.A famous novelist James Michener has written:

The master in the art of living makes little distinction between his work and his play,his labor and his leisure,his mind and his body,his  information and his recreation,his life and his religion.He hardly knows which is which.He simply persues his vision of excellence at whatever he does,leaving others to decide whether he is working or playing.

TO him,HE IS ALWAYS  DOING BOTH.

                                                                          MESSAGE

The chances of your success multiplies 100 times when you do a job you really love.

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A SMALL SERVICE TO MY BELOVED READERS:

As i am also a life coach, if you so desire, you can refer to me  your personal, professional and family issues either through my blog or my email (given below) and I would send you my advice within a week.I am extending my services  to you for a very nominal  fee of 1 $ per advice which I only want to charge because when you get something free, you do not value it.My main objective

is to give you the benefit of my knowledge and three decades experience  so that you begin to think and understand life issues in an appropriate and rational manner and right perspective and lead a calm,anxiety free and happy life.

My email: ravi_singh52@hotmail.com

Thanks and Regards.

 

WHAT CAN MAKE YOU A RESULT-ORIENTED PERSON?

WHAT CAN MAKE YOU A RESULT-ORIENTED PERSON?

1-ACCEPTABILITY: You must have pleasing manners,etiquette’s & charm so that you are first acceptable to others before you achieve anything through ‘PEOPLE’

2-ATTITUDE: Very important.Right attitude and body-language helps you to think and react positively in any given situation.

3-HONESTY:You should be honest to yourself,others and in everything you do.

4-FOCUS: You should have 100% focus on your target,like in Mahabharat,Arjun had his focus on eye lid of fish.He could not see anything else.

5-ORGANISE:You must organize yourself and all your resources in hand.

6-CREATIVE APPROACH: Creative mind is a fertile mind which helps you to ‘think and do’ things differently and achieve your objective in a non-conventional manner.

7-HARD WORK& DEDICATION:There is absolutely no shortcut to hard work and total dedication is a must.

8-FIRE IN BELLY:Also known as ‘X’factor.Fire within you is a must to succeed in any walk of life.

9-DO & THINK RIGHT:IN any complex situation,you must ask the right question rather than addressing wrong  question.Similarly,you must do the right things than doing wrong things rightly.

10-COMMONSENSE:Most effective human tools to achieve anything in life.

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THE MORE RISK YOU TAKE THE MORE REWARDS YOU GET!!

I can tell you one thing with certainty that when you will be facing your death bed,it will not be all the risks you took that you will regret the most.Rather,what will fill your heart with the greatest amount of regret and sadness will be all those risks that you did not take,all those opportunities you did not seize and all those fears you did not face.

If you want to live your life to the fullest,start taking more calculated risks and especially doing things that you fear most.you must learn to gladly accept your discomfort and stop taking safe and less resistence path.No doubt,you would strike your toe painfully against a hard surface when you walk the road less travelled,but take it from me,that is the only way you can get somewhere.

You must stop spending your days searching for security.The real success lies in spending your time persuing opportunity.Life is all about choices.The choices you make is what you become in life.Like in a game of chess,there are infinite choices in your life and it is upto your wisdom what choice you make.All achievers,actualized people simply make wiser choice than others.There can be a person who could chose to spend rest of his days sitting on shore of life in complete safety while there will also be a person who would decide to take a chance,deep dive into the water and discover the pearl that lie waiting for the person of true courage.

If you want to keep yourself inspired and focused on the fact that you must keep stretching your own personal boundaries as days go by,you must remember the following words by Theodore Roosevelt.

“It is not the critic who counts,not the man who points out how the strong man stumbled,or where the doer of deeds could have done better.The credit belongs to  the man who is actually in the arena.,whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood,who strives valiantly,who errs and comes short again and again,who knows the great enthusiasm,the great devotions and spends himself in a worthy cause,who at best knows in the end the triumphs of high achievement and who at the worst,if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who know NEITHER VICTORY NOR DEFEAT.

                                                                    MESSAGE

PL DO NOT FEAR TAKING RISKS AND BOTHER ABOUT FAILURE.I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN A HIGH RISK TAKER AND A GREAT LOSER TOO. WHEN I TASTED SUCCESS PEOPLE BRANDED ME ACHIEVER AND WHEN I FAILED PEOPLE BRANDED ME LOSER.PL DO NOT FEAR BEING A  LOSER BECAUSE IT IS THE FIRST STEP TO BE AN ACHIEVER.

ON THE OTHER SIDE OF FEAR LIES FREEDOM.GRAB YOUR FREEDOM!!

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A SMALL SERVICE TO MY BELOVED READERS:

As i am also a life coach, if you so desire, you can refer to me  your personal, professional and family issues either through my blog or my email (given below) and I would send you my advice within a week.I am extending my services  to you for a very nominal  fee of 1 $ per advice which I only want to charge because when you get something free, you do not value it.My main objective

is to give you the benefit of my knowledge and three decades experience  so that you begin to think and understand life issues in an appropriate and rational manner and right perspective and lead a calm,anxiety free and happy life.

My email: ravi_singh52@hotmail.com

Thanks and Regards.