DO YOU WANT TO IMPROVE YOUR PERSUASION SKILL IN YOUR PROFESSIONAL AND PERSONAL LIFE??

Hi Friends,
Persuasion is a very important ” Soft Skill” which is needed in all walks of life.We all must have this skill especially in our professional and personal life.This realization is becoming more focussed now and Persuasion is globally
most sought skill in 21st century.

Having realized this emerging reality,I have written a new book(8th book) which is titled as- PERSUASION:WHY IT IS GLOBALLY MOST SOUGHT SKILL IN 21ST CENTURY.
This e-book has been published yesterday on Amazon kindle.

I suggest all my wordpress community friends to have a look on the preview of this book and read this book,if it excites them and want to improve this skill.

Hope you pause and think about my suggestion.
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CAN YOU KEEP REGULAR MEETINGS WITH YOURSELF??

As we keep venturing into unchartered economic waters, how can you keep your job
on track and deliver your best?

Schedule a weekly meeting with yourself.Thats right: no matter how busy you are,this is not a luxary.Its essential.

Every week, take a quiet hour to reflect on recent critical events-conflcts,failures, opportunities you exploited,observations of others’ behavior,feedback from others.

Consider how you responded, what went well, what didn’t and what might be more effective in the future.

NEVER EVER CANCEL THIS MEETING-IT IS CRUCIAL!!

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USE YOUR WORDS CAREFULLY BECAUSE THEY ARE YOUR ADVERTISEMENT!!

Be careful of what you speak.Worda are like the arrows being shot from a bow.
Just like these arrows,our words too cannot be recalled. They will hit and impact the target regardless of anything.

Words carry enormous weight,and therefore,in particular,they do have long-lasting effect.Negative words,in particular,can have far-reaching results.Every
word that we speak has a force that creates powerful effect,either negative or positive,depending upon how and for what the word has been used.We use words to communicate with each other,but are often unaware of their power that they may create an imbalance in our life.

To create happy and encouraging events we must resort to words that bring fruitful results in our lives.” For good or bad,our conversation is our advertisement.Every time we open our mouth we let others look into our mind”

While communicating with someone,there should be no place for arguments and it should have no link with the personal life of others. We must learn to use the best and appropriate words in any conversation irrespective of the level of talks and the results thereof.

We generally feel the heat of wrong words for us by other people.In place of facing hate,humiliation,insult we may perhaps prefer to bear the loss and scrape the very issue of discussion and decide never to communicate with people who have hurled derogatory words for us.We must therefore also feel such heat for others. We do not communicate to gain victory or to win a war,we communicate to create a wave of energy that helps us to create our events of life and circumstances congenial for the purpose of communication.

Sometimes,we hurt ourselves with our own words.In fact, we don’t realize it but we are constantly doing it.When we tell ourselves things like “I am a failure” or ” I am hopeless” or “I am good for nothing” or “I won’t get well,these words carry a wave of the impact that adversely affect our life. They occupy a permanent place in our personality and we start feeling the impact in our practical life.Be sure to make a choice to say the best possible words to yourself.Words like,”I am good with people” can go a long way.

ONCE WE SAY THESE WORDS TO OURSELVES,THEY BECOME REAL.

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CAN I ASK FOR YOUR VALUABLE SUGGESTION!!

Hi all my friends!

A week back I finished writing my next book-WHY PERSUASION IS GLOBALLY
BEING MOST SOUGHT SKILL IN 21ST CENTURY.In all possibility this book will
be live on Amazon Kindle by 30th April.

I want now to start writing a new book.This time,I want and request my
wordpress friends to suggest me a new topic they strongly want me
to write a book which they would love to read.

I am sure you all would respond to my request.

I love you all!

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FORGIVE BUT DON’T FORGET-SENSIBLE?

Common wisdom holds that failure is inevitable,especially when innovating.
If you want people to take risks and try new things,failure must be an option.

But few organizations have actually created cultures that accepts gaffes. To
show your support for failure, encourage your people to make the most of their
blunders.

Try adopting a “forgive but don’t forget” approach.Forgive honest mistakes, but
make sure employees learn from past failures so they don’t repeat them.

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LISTING YOUR WORRIES AND PROBLEMS IS HALF SOLVED.

I am a firm believer in Charles kittering’s proverb – “A problem well stated is a problem half solved.” You feel something special when you take out a piece of paper and list your every single problem and worry. This is like a peaceful feeling you get after telling your best friend about something that has been troubling you for weeks. You feel lighter, calmer and freer.

If you keep thinking about your worries and problems, a time will come when you will think little else. In this situation, it becomes very important that you let go the mental clutter that your problems tend to generate. To get out of this situation, list all your worries on a piece of paper. If you do this, they would no longer be able to control your mind and drain your valuable energy.

This is such a simple exercise that will take your problems into proper perspective and let you tackle them in an orderly, well planned sequence. There are many successful people who have successfully used this technique. Winston Churchill once said – “It helps to write down half a dozen things which are worrying me. two of them, say, disappear; about two, nothing can be done, so it is no use worrying and LAST TWO PERHAPS CAN BE SETTLED.

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A SMALL SERVICE TO MY BELOVED READERS:

As i am also a life coach, if you so desire, you can refer to me  your personal, professional and family issues either through my blog or my email (given below) and I would send you my advice within a week.I am extending my services  to you for a very nominal  fee of 1 $ per advice which I only want to charge because when you get something free, you do not value it.My main objective

is to give you the benefit of my knowledge and three decades experience  so that you begin to think and understand life issues in an appropriate and rational manner and right perspective and lead a calm,anxiety free and happy life.

My email: ravi_singh52@hotmail.com

Thanks and Regards.