We all run away from conflicts. It really makes us feel bad, so we avoid it. We all hope it will somehow resolve itself. But it never does! Instead it just festers like a bad wound- what we resist really does persist.
I have a different point of view on conflict. Conflict is an opportunity for greater growth and deeper personal connection. Every conflict carries within it a powerful lessons to make you a better human being in your understanding and perspective. I have seen that every conflict whether with a loved one or anybody else, is a gorgeous opportunity to forge an even closer bond with them. It turns their dissatisfaction into a wow for both of you.
So don’t run away from conflict. Avoid sending email when you know you need to speak some truth face to face. Its all about balancing compassion with courage. And let me tell you it can feel so messy,in truth its a gift. Accept and embrace it. Relish the potential it carries. Celebrate it!!
IT CAN SERVE YOU SO WELL!!