I can tell you one thing with certainty that when you will be facing your death bed,it will not be all the risks you took that you will regret the most.Rather,what will fill your heart with the greatest amount of regret and sadness will be all those risks that you did not take,all those opportunities you did not seize and all those fears you did not face.
If you want to live your life to the fullest,start taking more calculated risks and especially doing things that you fear most.you must learn to gladly accept your discomfort and stop taking safe and less resistence path.No doubt,you would strike your toe painfully against a hard surface when you walk the road less travelled,but take it from me,that is the only way you can get somewhere.
You must stop spending your days searching for security.The real success lies in spending your time persuing opportunity.Life is all about choices.The choices you make is what you become in life.Like in a game of chess,there are infinite choices in your life and it is upto your wisdom what choice you make.All achievers,actualized people simply make wiser choice than others.There can be a person who could chose to spend rest of his days sitting on shore of life in complete safety while there will also be a person who would decide to take a chance,deep dive into the water and discover the pearl that lie waiting for the person of true courage.
If you want to keep yourself inspired and focused on the fact that you must keep stretching your own personal boundaries as days go by,you must remember the following words by Theodore Roosevelt.
“It is not the critic who counts,not the man who points out how the strong man stumbled,or where the doer of deeds could have done better.The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.,whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood,who strives valiantly,who errs and comes short again and again,who knows the great enthusiasm,the great devotions and spends himself in a worthy cause,who at best knows in the end the triumphs of high achievement and who at the worst,if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who know NEITHER VICTORY NOR DEFEAT.
PL DO NOT FEAR TAKING RISKS AND BOTHER ABOUT FAILURE.I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN A HIGH RISK TAKER AND A GREAT LOSER TOO. WHEN I TASTED SUCCESS PEOPLE BRANDED ME ACHIEVER AND WHEN I FAILED PEOPLE BRANDED ME LOSER.PL DO NOT FEAR BEING A LOSER BECAUSE IT IS THE FIRST STEP TO BE AN ACHIEVER.
ON THE OTHER SIDE OF FEAR LIES FREEDOM.GRAB YOUR FREEDOM!!
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